I am so embarrassed.
I admit. I may have been playing around on Tinder for like, ten minutes when I was in Wisconsin a week and a half ago. (Travel post coming- I promise!)
I was curious as to what Wisconsin had to offer.
Wisconsin had a lot of offer. But too many of them had “Uncle Greg” listed as a mutual contact and that would have been weird and awkward.
I find the whole Facebook friend connection thing to be awkward and uncomfortable.
I deleted the account.
Because swiping is boring.
I know I played around before and it was amusing but I don’t find it amusing anymore.
Swiping is not for me and I doubt it ever will be.
I want organic connections only.
I am open to whatever the Universe sends my way but until the Universe sends me love, I am content to be by myself.
I just want to focus on myself.
I mean, I am pretty awesome but I can always be more awesome.
Apparently when I deleted my tinder account, I didn’t uninstall the app. I just let it sit dormant on the phone.
Well I tonight got a notification from the app that my profile had ten likes and that they were waiting for me to swipe.
I was mortified.
I am not the most tech savvy but I know I deleted the account.
Maybe it is because Mercury is in Retrograde?
Mercury Retrograde causes your technology to be messed up and WordPress keeps messing up my spacing…
Then it dawned on me that I let my three year old daughter watch YouTube kids on my phone.
What can I say? I am on my way to becoming Mom of the Year 2018.
I used to let my daughter play on my regular YouTube app but decided that probably wasn’t the best idea.
Plus, my suggested videos in YouTube started showing options like this-
Or even worse…
So I downloaded the YouTube kids for her but sometimes she accidentally closes it and opens other apps.
She almost sent a SnapChat the other day that a picture of my floor with something like “sdjddfhsdf” written in the text.
So she probably opened the Tinder app and hit the button that lets you sign up with your facebook account.
It’s actually really easy to do.
Either that or she is trying to play matchmaker.
I can’t make this sh*t up.
I am okay with her sending random weird snaps accidentally to my friends but I draw the line at tinder swiping.
So sorry to the ten guys who swiped on me. I’m flattered that you took the 2 seconds to look at my pictures and decide that I was worth a swipe right.
I am done swiping.
I deleted the account and uninstalled the app.
Uninstall. Uninstall. Uninstall.
It’s Friday, you know what that means!
Time for some Good Vibrations Gratitude!
These are the 5 thing I am grateful for this weekend.
- Seeing Les Miserables
I mentioned in my previous post about how I saw Les Miserables on a school trip to NYC my senior year of high school and how excited I was to see it last weekend. I had a great time.I was also intrigued at how sophisticated set design became in 22 years.
Les Miserables, 2018
We did learn a valuable lesson. When you see a show at Proctors in Schenectady, make sure you make reservations if you want to eat at any of the nearby restaurants. We didn’t. None of us thought of it. Ooops. Luckily there was a stand at the theater that sold sandwiches, desserts and there was also a bar.
This whole dinner debacle demonstrated a shift in my thinking. The old Kerry would stress about everything. Bryon used to say that I searched for things to worry about. The old Kerry would have freaked out that we didn’t have dinner reservations. The New Kerry just thought “I am not really that hungry anyway but there is a sandwich stand. If this is the worse thing that happens to me all night, then this is a great night. I am out with friends and I am seeing a musical that I love.”
I know I have grown as a person and it is nice to see evidence of that growth.
- My daughter’s first haircut
I had so many emotions watching (and snap chatting) this. This was my daughters first haircut. There wasn’t much to cut off but her hair did grown in uneven so it was evened out. My hairdresser also put the hair in an envelope for me.
So. Many. Emotions. I tell you.
My daughter loved going to the salon and had a great time being “grown up”.
- The Princess Party
In a moment of insanity, I decided to buy tickets to the Princess Ball. It was Sunday morning and I had stayed up late the night before.
My daughter had a ball. (Pun intended).
I was texting Kimmy Gibbler and I told her that I was annoyed by all screaming kids and equally pushy parents. This was the unimpressed selfie I took and sent her. I was over it.
But it was hard to stay annoyed when I saw how much my daughter enjoyed herself. She has been telling everyone about the Princess Ball and in great detail too.
I was actually surprised at the detailed questions she asked each of the princesses. She didn’t just talk about dresses and tiaras. She asked Anna about the speed of Kristoff’s sled. My daughter is one smart cookie.
Because they are delicious. I love guacamole and avocado toast.
- My job
I had my yearly review at my job. It went well. I am thankful for my job. They hired me two months after Bryon died. Some people told me I should take more time off but I felt it was time to go back to work. Except for three weeks when my FMLA ran out, I hadn’t worked in 7 months. I was ready. That and our health insurance coverage through Bryon’s employment ended so that was also a motivating factor for going back to work.
Before I became a sole parent, I never thought I would like working from home. But now I feel like I couldn’t do it any other way. My schedule allows complete flexibility. I work a lot at night but that gives me the time to go to the gym, make doctors appointments and have the occasional lunch with friends. It also gives me wiggle room if my daughter is home sick or there is a snow day. The flexibility of my job helps me thrive (more like survive) in the other areas of my life.
My employer also provides us with a large amount of educational resources so I am able to keep up the continuing education I need to maintain my credential. That is very helpful because now I can’t go off and attend conferences anymore.
They also have an amazing program that gives each employee five days to volunteer and give back to the community. My company also donate money to grant wishes of employees in need every holiday season. I literally cried when they announced who won the wishes and told their stories. My company has a heart.
I also work with an amazing team. I have only talked to them on the phone and through email but they are great people.
And one last bonus gratitude-
- The random 3 Hello Kitty pull ups
My daughter is mostly potty trained but still wears pull ups at night. I didn’t realize that we were down to one last pull up until she went to put it on. I know, I am totally failing at this motherhood thing lately. Actually I am pretty sure I am failing at life in general.I got annoyed at myself because that means I have to go out in the storm today and get a package of pull ups. But really no big deal.
Well my daughter had a big poop in that one last pull up. Of all nights. This story happened literally right before I typed this so it is in the middle of the night (because I don’t sleep anymore). I didn’t want to have to get her dressed and go to the 24 hour pharmacy to get pull ups.
I told myself not to panic. We had to have a random pull up somewhere in the house or maybe the car.
I looked in my purse- none.
Then I see a bag from my trip to Massachusetts for my grandmother’s funeral that I had not unpacked. (I know, a month ago. I told you, I am failing at life. I am a hot mess.) I looked inside and there were three Hello Kitty Pull Ups.
So I am very thankful for those three random Hello Kitty Pull-ups.
I am sure she is going to love reading this when she is older. She is probably going to be so unimpressed. She will probably say something like “Hey Mom, remember that time when you wrote about how I shit my pants and put it on the internet for the whole world to read?” And then I will remind her that we all have shit our pants at one time or another and that the post was actually about princesses and pull ups.
Those are the 6 things I am grateful for. What are you grateful for this week?