It dawned on me that I should be setting the mood to these gratitude posts.
1. I am thankful that my teen years were during the 1990’s.
Saved by the Bell, Beverly Hills 90210, Flannel shirts, scruchies…the list goes on.
I began the 1990’s as a fifth grader and closed them out 11 days after I returned from my semester abroad during my junior year in college. So I got to experience a tiny part of elementary school, all my middle school and high school years and most of my college years in this decade.
2. On the way to my daughters gym class, she wanted to sing “Let It Go” so we listened and belted it out. We did, in fact, let it go. That is how the McKim girls roll. Though I admit it started to get old after the fifth time. But I know she will not always be my sweet little girl. There will come a day when she will be too cool to want to sing with me.
3. Pee-peeing in the potty. My daughter hasn’t shown much interest in peeing in the potty. Her teachers at daycare and I decided last week to start putting her in underwear. Tuesday and Thursday were accident free days and Wednesday we only had one (poop) so I am encouraged. I see the light at the end of the tunnel!
And I am sure when she is a teenager, she will love that I shared this in the blog. I will have to remind her that she was so proud and told everyone and anyone.
4. I am thankful for my health. I know it seems like a simple thing but it’s actually a huge thing. I have legs that work, organs that function and I am in a position where there is nothing holding me back from improving myself physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
5. Fall foliage. The best time to be alive in the Northeast.
Today’s WordPress writing prompt- Surreal
Nothing mattered. Eating didn’t matter. Showering didn’t matter. Sleep didn’t matter.
Everything seemed like it was a million miles away. My home. My job. The 2016 Presidential Election.
“Your husband has been transferred to the SICU.”
“Your husband might not survive this surgery.”
“Your husband’s heart will stop beating today.”
“Your husband is clinically dead.”
“Let’s look at the caskets we offer.”
The moment you give your credit card to the man at the cemetery to buy your second piece of property.
The moment you have to check the widow box on the marital status question on medical forms.
The moment you have to write deceased next to the father’s name on your child’s forms for school.
Those moments when life doesn’t feel real.
I don’t feel like I have anything profound to say.
I have written a lot. I still have a lot more to write. It’s been a challenge at times to put my emotions into words.
Writing has helped me so much.
Maybe this will be permanent. Maybe this will be temporary.
I have met new blogging friends and I still have a lot of new blogging friends to meet.
Thank you for the support and thank you for reading!
Today’s writing prompt came from Teresa’s Creations. Two word prompt: “Be grateful”
That is what they say tell her.
She must not be grateful for what she has.
How would they even know?
Of course she is grateful.
For her daughter.
For her friends and family.
For her means.
For her health.
How dare they imply she isn’t grateful for that.
Can’t she just miss her husband?
She loves her friends, but they can’t fill the void he leaves.
She loves her daughter.
Her daughter is young.
It’s not fair to expect her to take the place of her father.
People tell her to be grateful.
Do people even know what they are saying?
Do they not understand what she has been through?
Be grateful for what?
The loss of her dreams?
The lost plans?
The loss of security?
The loss of faith?
People think they are helping, but they don’t know.
Why can’t she just feel what she feels?
Why can’t she just be sad?
I have been wanting to dabble a little bit more into the creative side of writing.
My post today came from Teresa’s Creations. Two word prompt: “Life Today”
Life goes on around her, but it doesn’t matter.
The world moves forward.
Life moves forward.
Business as usual.
But her life stands still.
A lingering sadness.
Maybe a permanent sadness.
She has been through so much.
Her soul mate is gone.
She yearns for the happy days of her past.
The empty years lay ahead.
How long can she live off of memories?
When will she feel alive again?
The last ten days have been a whirlwind. My daughter and I traveled to Chicago to see my best friend and her daughter and the following weekend we went to Maine for my other best friend’s wedding. I had a great time on both of these trips. They were good for my soul. I will blog about these adventures as I catch up over the next couple of days.
There will even be food pics.
I am trying to not be overwhelmed by all the catching up I need to do. I am trying to embrace the chaos. Yes, my life is crazy, but I am spending time with amazing people and having some great experiences.
I have so much to write about. I just need to find more hours in the day to write. I just need a few days to catch up and re-center. And once I do that, I will share my two recent trips, the garden post I promised Roda, awards posts and everything else. I hope to resume commenting on my blogging friends’ posts soon. And I haven’t forgotten about a post for you Linda!
I want to thank James for nominating me for the Sunshine Award. It is an honor!
And check out his blog. It is inspiring!
This is an award for those blogs which bring sunshine into your life… interpret it any way you feel is appropriate, but follow these guidelines:
1.) Thank the person who nominated you in a blog post and link back to their blog.
2.) Answer the 11 questions sent by the person who nominated you.
3.) Nominate 11 new blogs to receive the award and write them 11 new questions.
4.) List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo in your post and/or on your blog.
Questions Asked of Me:
- Where is the best place to watch the sunrise or sunset?
Mount Cadillac in Acadia National Park on Mount Desert Island in Maine.
- What color do you wear the most often?
Blue. (I wear a lot of Red Sox shirts)
- How many siblings do you have?
I have one older brother who is 4 years older than me.
- Which charity would you leave all your money to in the future?
I would leave all my money to the Bryon C McKim Foundation. We are working to create scholarships for his college (Siena College) and law school (Albany Law School)
- If you lived in another country, what would it be?
I have lived in England. I did a semester of college (or term of uni as my English friends would say) in Winchester.
- What are your favorite and least favorite candy bars?
Favorite-Snickers, Reese’s Peanut Butter Cups and Twix
Least Favorite- Butterfinger and Three Muskateers
- What is you favorite time of day?
Anytime that is not morning. I hate the morning.
- What is the least favorite part of your own blog?
My least favorite parts would be the posts that I spend a lot of time on and no one reads lol.
- What food causes you to pig out the most?
Chips and dip.
- What actress would you want to meet for coffee?
- Where is your most ticklish spot?
Do I have to tell? My armpits. And if anyone I know reaches for them, I will smack you.
I am usually a rule follower, but I am going to do a cop out and nominate no one and every one. I feel like the blogging world has been saturated with awards lately and that everyone I know has been nominated. It’s probably a sign that I need to grow my network of blogging friends. So if you feel like playing- then you are nominated!
My Questions For You (Most are summer themed):
- What are your thoughts on camping? Fun or total nightmare?
- Would you rather go swimming in a pool, lake or ocean?
- What is your favorite summer memory?
- Are you going on a vacation this summer?
- What is your idea of a perfect summer night?
- What is your favorite type of ice cream? Flavor? Soft serve or hard ice cream?
- What temperature is too hot?
- What is your favorite food to eat at a BBQ?
- Do you like flavored coffee? If so, what kind?
- What is your most favorite thing about Autumn?